![]() Yikes! We both decided to get checked out by a doctor. We were lonely and scared to death of herpes, AIDS, genital warts and other sexually transmitted diseases. As time passed, it became evident that my secret love was also in love with me, and we waited patiently for over 20 years to make a move. ![]() If she hadn’t been happily married when we met, I would have pursued her. For reasons too voluminous to go into, I’d greatly admired and desired my wife’s twin sister. From 1969 to 1989 I was married to a delightful Irish lady. His story happened to me for a different reason: fear of disease. ![]() Both couples migrated to California years ago, and when they retired, settled in this small, conservative community.” This way, we’re all happy!’ Oh, sure, you say, typical Californians. ![]() 2 replied, ‘Hey, I can’t keep my wife satisfied. 2 told my husband, who, after he got over his shock, asked him, ‘How do you feel about it?’ Husband No. 2, much to the satisfaction of both parties. 1, with his wife’s knowledge, began taking two-hour ‘walks’ with wife No. I know of just such a situation in our community. Some even have tales that can top yours …īarbara: “I certainly believe Ron is telling the truth about his wife setting him up with their sexually deprived neighbor. I must admit, I wondered if you were telling the truth, but the readers are 100 percent with you. You recently wrote how you were providing neighborhood stud service for women whose husbands had run out of steam or were widowed or divorced - all with your wife’s permission, since her thermostat was stuck at a chilly 32 degrees and there was no antifreeze in her future. That being said, if I am treated disrespectfully because I am different, I don't go back.Ron, you hearty 65-year-old, please accept my most sincere apologies. I think otherwise, people may look at me differently being that I seem uncomfortable or even that I am a jerk. I am networking and socializing with everyone around me and showing genuine interest and participating in the conversations. I never feel like I don't "fit in" because I don't allow myself to be a victim and close myself off in a shell. so perhaps my comfort comes from having a mixed family with two different races for so many years. I am often the only white person at cookouts, churches, family gatherings etc. While I get the feelings of having your own environment and your spots you don't want people who are not like you to change that special environment, I think the world would be better served if we could learn to appreciate each other's differences and celebrate our different heritages, food, music, etc. Sadly, the world presents stereotypes and some people take issue to those things that are different because they don't like the way it makes them feel. In this way, a person should feel confident and comfortable wherever they go. It has more to do with a woman (or a man for that matter) feeling comfortable in their own skin and who they are as a person. Remember that skit from Sesame Street? Lol "One of these things is not like the others, one of these thing are not the same." I feel much like Tam in that I don't feel uncomfortable or out of place when visiting an establishment where I am "out of place"
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